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erin's avatar

"There is nobody to deliberate with."

I have been trying to speak peacefully with people from the progressive/woke camp, and so far it's been a failure. Not because some of them are not willing to speak without epithets. Some are. But they refuse to truly engage. What is missing is.... "hm, that's an interesting point... let me think about it.... here are my maybe half-baked thoughts... let's explore." There is none of that at all. And there is utter refusal to admit "yeah, we were wrong about that." The sense of rigidity and endless egging on to detest the other side is truly dismaying.

Shalini Bahl, PhD's avatar

I agree with you 💯. I couldn't have articulated it this clearly. I saw this first hand as a town councilor, even though in Amherst, MA, We're all mostly progressive. But anytime a question was asked about race or reparations or our local police, the questioner was shut down, shamed, made to feel racist - an opportunity lost to communicate, understand lived experiences from different points of view. That increased the chasm, with people holding on to their beliefs tighter than ever. I see similar politics playing out nationally only with millions of dollars being pumped into a propaganda divide that magnifies the chasm.

What to do about it? Understanding this is a first good step. I recently wrote a post that compassion is not kumbaya with strategies for deep listening and curiosity.

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